Him.

How can you find the perfect person if you set the bar so high that only Kenny Wormald or Channing Tatum fit every criteria set? I had a relationship a few years back. He was stunning, polite, kind, rich, drove nice cars, had a beach house, was genuine, had an amazing down to earth family and was just simply mine. Yet behind all the good characteristics, there were things that he done which I will never want in another boyfriend again. He was controlling, loved to be number one, competitive, greedy, selfish, he cheated on me numerous times and did drugs, 24 hours a day. I mean, you can never find anyone perfect. So how do you create a mind set for people you are willing to spend a part of your life with? He has to be good looking, I’m not gonna deny that. He also has to have a very good sense of humour, he has to be driven and have goals which are realistic and should no matter be trustworthy. Trust is probably the most important aspect in a relationship. I mean, I will never want to check his facebook, tumblr, phone etc. unless I feel that I have to. Trust is there until it is broken. I’ve learnt the hard way. He will lie. He will tell you what you wanna hear. But where are these genuine men that are absolutely adorable and wanna sweep you off your feet. I would be the perfect girlfriend because I know not what to do. He will never feel as if he is anything other than my one and only.

If only men were are confident and charming as they were years ago. I would be in total awe if some dreamy guy come over to me (sober) and asked me for my name and number. I don’t wanna be the chaser. I want him to notice me. Who ever he is.

I want to be your botn! :)

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